Bodily Sensations are Mimicking our Conditioning
‘Research has shown that bodily sensations are not experienced naturally, as they are, but are interpreted by the brain according to past experiences, parental conditioning, and popular beliefs ’ The Art of Sexual Ecstasy, Margo Anand
‘Research has shown that bodily sensations are not experienced naturally, as they are, but are interpreted by the brain according to past experiences, parental conditioning, and popular beliefs ’ The Art of Sexual Ecstasy, Margo Anand
This is a very interesting concept to think about.
Romantic relationships mimic our childhood experience for us to be able to heal, and this is mental, the subconscious mind brings it to the surface for us to be able to address it.
When we are unconscious, we think that our partners did something TO US, yet that is the projection of our trauma to be able to heal the relationship with our parents and the grudges we had from other relationships and unions.
Yet the sexual experience itself is very special. The society has many controversial attitudes towards it.
I am not speaking about religious manipulation, where we saw sexual expression as sinful.
But think about it: what sexual experience truly is? Two bodies are merging as one in the union of love.
If people are connecting through love, they see the union as such. As opportunity to be seen raw and vulnerable, real and honest.
Yet with the manipulation and control the p0rn industry made people believe that their experience has to be like that. The main reason for that industry to exist was very easy - to cut the humanity from the hearts.
There is a lot of energy down there, but it is not flowing further, being blocked, locked, shamed, suppressed and cut off.
Many people get hooked up on the sexual release, they don't really care that much about their partner, they just chase the peak. They want to be done with this and go do other things.
It can be extremely traumatic, when we do not take enough time to experience true arousal, we do not know ourselves, and we have a lot of society bullshit in our mind about how it should be, giving us the frustration and dissatisfaction.
But when we choose to learn about energy, to unlearn the "ways how to" we knew from before, and connect through the heart space, we learn that there is so much more to us. We start seeing the union for what it truly is.
Tantra Rituals can help you disconnect from past lovers and experiences, and come back to your original code of your original self. And then consciously choose to slowly open up for meaningful connections, for meaningful experiences.
We were numb, we couldn't feel much, when we go deeper and deeper and shed the shackles of the projections, we learn how to be honest with ourselves, how not to agree for less, how to see where you are overwhelmed, how to be raw and honest with yourself.
It’s time to be real and it is a choice.
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When a man touches her breasts, chances are her heart gets activated.
Yet for him - his sex is activated first. It is her job to bring him to the heart.
When a man touches her breasts, chances are her heart gets activated.
Yet for him - his sex is activated first. It is her job to bring him to the heart.
May 2023, by Viktoria Kshevinskaya
Many of us are scared of using proper boundaries because of the abandonment trauma . We are scared that if we say NO to something, we would be rejected… completely.. the love would be withdrawn from us.
And for that reason our boundaries are constantly crossed, ignored, or we do not even know how to place them to begin with.
It is especially valid for intimacy.
Do you truly know what is your YES and what is your NO? The line is very thin.
We, as women, need to be able to say our NO loudly enough. It is up to a woman to decide, whether she is ready or not.
A man who is able to deeply listen to a subtle whisper coming from the depth of her psyche is priceless. Everyone is able to push through, but it is not what we want.
That deeply nourishing space of gentle touch talks directly to the heart.
Feminine is emotional, if she tries to suppress it, she tries to wear masculine pants all the time.
But she can be scared of saying NO just to keep that man close, just to be coupled, just to be comfortable.
Even if she doesn’t fully want, or not fully ready.
We, as feminine, have been using our sexuality in such a wrong way.
Many people are disconnected from their true feelings. When they come into relationship they get into a huge illusion. It is a point where entities entertain themselves through our emotional roller coaster.
But we cannot communicate what we truly want if we do not fully understand it ourselves.
Connecting back to your body, connecting back to your true feelings and sensations, finding your true worth allows you to deeply understand what you want and you do not want.
If you have once tried slooooooow deeeeeep intimacy, where the time stops and the connection is faaaaaaar beyond the genitals, you no longer want “a quickie”, it just feels like junk food.
I am inviting you to explore what else is there.
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And of course, we need both energies within and without, but also we need to learn how to witness the shift.
My work is not just about empowering women, it is a misconception.
We all need to learn how to dance together in harmony to be able to create together for the good of all.
Women were suppressed and they jumped into masculine pants to prove that they are worthy.
Although it is not what the true love is about.
Women cannot be men, men cannot be women. We need both. In ability to listen deeply, to see the beauty and to join the dance with full devotion.
And it is not that “men are wrong, women are so amazing”, not at all.
Women have been using their sexuality as a powerful tool to bond with men, but often times it was a trauma bond, subconsciously of course.
Most women want to “be coupled”, while ignoring the red flags. It is easier for women to perceive reality through the open heart (her breasts are pointing out - it is a fact).
I am not claiming that everyone wants to be in relationship, but everyone has hopes, that one day….
When a man touches her breasts, chances are her heart gets activated, yet for him - his sex is activated first.
It is her job to bring him to the heart.
I mean, of course, if he is fully centered in the heart himself, awesome.
But often - NO.
It is her job within a couple to help him return HOME to his heart.
To be able to show up for her, to show up for his true values, to show up for the humanity.
Men get initiations from women.
The way a man makes love to a woman is reflected in the way he makes love to life.
What energy are you in?
Rushing, pushing, fuck&killing or nurturing, supporting, listening, protecting, providing?
Allow that bad boy and good boy to come together, we need you as a whole.
His relationship with the feminine is a reflection of his relationship with the nature itself.
Do not take me wrong, I am talking about a fully integrated feminine, for sure.
Everyone takes his own role on the healing journey of his / her own.
But the fully integrated feminine is the one who has managed to come into wholeness after integrating both the darkness and the light.
And she pierces through the bullshit.
She knows what is and is not the way to be held.
She knows how to stay in the heart and how to help him get there.
Most of the time men get numb, not allowing true feelings to overtake them.
Their guard is on, their heart is sealed. Their mind is controlling every step.
Chances are it is not for the good of all.
On the contrary is another extreme - he is very much in the feminine, very emotional, unpredictable, not a safe container.
Her nature is cyclic, she was made this way by nature. If he is not able to be that secure ground, strong pillar, she will be destroying everything around when she is not held.
And of course we need to do our work on our own but healthy relationship is a powerful place for an amazing transformation.
We were made to dance through this life together, supporting each other’s journey and using love as the guiding star.
Now for a moment think about those couples you were admiring.
Were they just lucky to “find the one”? Not at all.
They have probably done a lot of work (which is unseen for the outsider). Chances are they have come through emotional purification, learnt the skills of deep communication, addressed the trauma, the triggers and the projections and learnt how to see beyond the society bullshit.
It is not easy to be in relatiohsip. It is not easy to be seen for who you truly are. You might have been suppressing it even for yourself, it takes courage to shed the layers of the heart of who you no longer are too.
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Romantic relationships are most of us sooner or later come across in our lives, have dreams, wishes and hopes about and experience trauma in.
Romantic relationships are most of us sooner or later come across in our lives, have dreams, wishes and hopes about and experience trauma in
November 2022, by Viktoria Kshevinskaya
They are a fertile ground for transformation, if we decide so, but if we are unconscious or too much in the ego, they are the place which will shaken us up and either help us understand our true values and open our hearts even wider no matter what, or will shut them down under the pile of layers of who we project we should be instead of all this.
Disappointment is a part of the experience, false expectations as well.
It happens so that all the romantic relationships most likely copy our childhood trauma - for example abandonment trauma. Our insecurities show up sooner or later and we have to address them. It’s just like with stress, we cannot avoid it, but how we handle it - this is an art we have to learn.
If we are conscious enough to watch our own feelings and the fire which arises as a respond. If we are learning how to strengthen our nervous system not in the moment of trigger, but during the inner work, during the meditation, breathwork or any other practices, we are exploring the mechanics how our psyche works. And then we have a chance of responding rather than reacting. The other thing is we are also learning how to hold space for the other. For our partners, loved ones, family member etc.
Sacred energy center is the place that holds sexual, but also creative and healing energy. It is the place we often get attacks on because emotional intelligence also resigns here.
Zoom out from the trauma and look at the mechanics of the matrix system. The energy beings are trying to find a way to manipulate us. They cannot manipulate our heart, if we are fully connected, but they can put some thoughts into our minds.
Now look at the relationship turmoil: your ego gets triggered and you start having constant thoughts. These are artificial thought-bugs, mind-control mechanisms, which are used to disconnect you from your heart.
Whenever that is happening, ask yourself, are these truly my thoughts?
Reach out to work deeper on your trauma and multidimensional swords & thorns.
Return to the Heart through your meditation.
Allow yourself to bloom.
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