Dark Masculine

Feminine is always challenging Masculine
Just by it's presence, by it's receptivity and authenticity

September 2021, by Viktoria Kshevinskaya

Feminine is always challenging Masculine. Just by it's presence, by it's receptivity and authenticity.

When dark masculine faces awakened woman, he has no idea what he is about to deal with. He has no idea how his reality will be shaken for him to face the shadows and the depth of his own presence. 

When divine feminine is hurt and yearns, moans, sobs and screams from the pain caused by dark masculine not able to have the capacity of meeting her in the depth she cries so loudly, the mountain peaks get shaken. When her dark goddess is out he has no other way but to see that there is something wrong in the way he has treated her. 

And that is a point of growth for sure, it is just not possible to hide behind those shadows any longer. 

When dark masculine penetrates divine feminine, his shadows are brought up to the surface for him to be able to step into his power and embrace his potential. 

But often the dark masculine has no idea what is going on, he does not understand why what he has done is not appropriate, why this attitude toward feminine needs to be changed, why he is constantly running in circles trying to find that "special one" his soul seeks connection with, with no results. 

We are all here for the experience. For the experience of divine presence and loving kindness which is not limited to the close connections of ours but expands to all the beings and the Mother Nature. 

Divine Feminine as the embodiment of Mother Nature, as the loving kindness, as the cyclic being, will always challenge the masculine. 

If the Feminine is not awakened, not attuned to her own cycles, does not embrace her own shadows, does not have the emotional intelligence to understand the depth of her own triggers and reactions, she will always be attracted to the dark masculine. The relationship will always be "almost over" at the time of her moon, as she will see clearly that she is not being held by the masculine when she needs that the most. Consciously or unconsciously she will see the depth and be triggered. And she will project that onto the outside world.

Embracing the shadows within the relationship is an amazing opportunity of evolving together as a couple and collectively as humanity. 

We all grew up in society, where it was not appropriate to speak to the masculine about the feminine cycles, the women were accused of being too emotional, irrational and "too much". But that is our power and not the shadow at all. We have that wisdom inside of us, which brings light into darkness and allows the pain to be seen.

Our souls yearn the deep connections, intimacy and sincere communication. We want to be met in the depth, but often we are scared to open up. We, as women, are scared, that the masculine will accuse us of "wanting too much". But that is our power and in that is our healing wisdom, transformative and supportive force of evolution present in every cell of our being. 

I truly want more women to connect to their own feminine power and to help men to awaken as a species. I truly want to see more divine feminine and divine masculine coming into sacred unions and healing each other, embracing the shadows, doing the inner work and stepping into our true potential by healing the world through ourselves with pure love. 

Embrace your potential.

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